Updated Response [with 60% less anger!]

When I wrote this entry, I did not verify that the quote existed.  One of my Twitter Birdies provided me with the link to find that horrible comment [and, of course, I found that there were other comments just as awesome].

This is specifically in response to Sarah though there are other comments on this article which are misguided.  I found this comment on its own [and therefore without context] and I made me very angry.  When I was directed to the location of the quote, I was still angered by what was here but I also wanted to address this audience with more consideration than I exhibited in my personal rant/response.

I think it is important to consider how the words that are placed on sites like this actually make those of us who are autistic feel.  We have to work, play, cope, and exist in this world and the sensational language and responses [especially when they are negative] affect how we are perceived.  I think that sometimes the authors of such comments intend to say something powerful and encouraging but never stopped to consider the words that actually came out.

Let us re-read this one comment:

'Many children, mostly boys, in the US have autism. This has caused "collateral damage" to American children and means that this generation will have a shortage of people [without autism and able to do worthy work?] to do essential jobs that only NT's can accomplish' ... Like being engineers and scientists?

Sorry to inconvenience the rest of you: I was too busy 'giving my life away before the onslaught of autism [that I was too weak to fight] and now the rest of the country will parish' because me, and all my autistic brethren, went and got all diagnosed with an Autism Spectrum Disorder??

:/

Please consider that autism [including the broader spectrum] causes 'side effects' which also include interests in math and science, the ability to see pictures in our heads and evaluate structures, focus and perfectionism, logical problem-solving, and quick mental processing.  These strengths can help us to be wildly successful. [Personally, I can complete complex calculus equations but cannot chose which mustard to buy at the store.]  Please also consider that the DSM criteria for autism is being altered due to a better understanding of autism.

I hope you can read this response and just understand how insulting your comment is to Autistics.  Especially since: "The majority (62%) of children the ADDM Network identified as having ASDs did not have intellectual disability. The largest increases during 2002 to 2008 were among children without intellectual disability (those having IQ scores higher than 70)" as of the 2008 published study.  These studies are based solely on the populations of children who are 8 years old at the time of the study.

A majority of us have IQ in the above-average to superior range.  A majority of us do not consider ourselves sick.  A majority of us find a lack of understanding and acceptance by those who feel pity for us or believe that they need to empathize with our lives.  No, not all of us [including myself] can speak [verbally] in an effective way, but that does not mean that we are less capable of felling or thinking or understanding.  We know what you think of us, especially when we are young and you are the adults in our lives.  And it does affect how we feel about ourselves and how we feel about you.